One profound scripture I came across long ago is found in Paul’s letter to the Corinthians: “All things are lawful unto me, but not all things are expedient” (1 Corinthians 6:12). This verse emphasizes that while we have the freedom to make choices, not all choices align with our purpose or are beneficial in the grand scheme of things.
A powerful illustration of this principle can be drawn from the story of Mary and Joseph. Imagine if Mary had made the mistake of being sexually promiscuous before meeting Joseph. While God’s mercy is boundless and her repentance would bring forgiveness, she would have disqualified herself from fulfilling a critical prophecy. The prophecy, given centuries earlier, declared that the Savior of the world would be born of a virgin – Isaiah 7:14 “Behold, a virgin shall conceive, and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel”. If Mary was no longer a virgin, she simply could not fulfill that divine role, regardless of her repentance.
This highlights an important truth: God’s mercy restores, but His assignments often have specific criteria that must be met. These criteria are not harsh but are part of a divine order or purpose. This principle extends beyond faith into secular life as well. For instance, an aspiring athlete might have the natural talent to succeed at the highest level, but if they consistently neglect training or engage in harmful habits, they may forfeit the opportunity to achieve their dreams. Similarly, a student may possess the intellectual ability to excel, but failing to dedicate time to study can disqualify them from reaching their potential.
In life, some instructions or boundaries may seem restrictive, but they often serve to preserve our ability to fulfill a unique purpose. Samson’s life offers another biblical example: his extraordinary strength was tied to a vow of consecration, including the instruction to never cut his hair. Violating that vow resulted in the loss of his strength and the interruption of his mission.
The lesson here is thought-provoking yet empowering. Every choice we make carries consequences, and while mercy is always available, some opportunities are time-sensitive and tied to specific conditions. In both spiritual and secular contexts, we must recognize that discipline and obedience—whether to divine instruction, personal principles, or practical requirements—are essential to realizing our full potential.
Have an amazing weekend!
2 thoughts on “The Illusion of Choice”
Thank you so much Doctor for sharing this instructive piece.
God’s mercy restores, but His assignments often have specific criteria that must be met.
Every choice we make carries consequences, and while mercy is always available, some opportunities are time-sensitive and tied to specific conditions.
Instructions received Sir…